Tag: Life Lessons

  • Great Relationships Are Not Given

    Great Relationships Are Not Given

    Great relationships are not given or found, they are built. Instead of searching for the perfect partner, I focus on becoming one. Until now, I never tried. The fear of rejection stifled my thoughts about opening up, like a guardian safeguarding me from failure, but killing me in the process. Whenever I shared something I…

  • How to Avoid Victim’s Fate, Reclaim Time and Energy by Embracing This One Thing

    How to Avoid Victim’s Fate, Reclaim Time and Energy by Embracing This One Thing

    You are a victim. You’re not to blame. Everything happens to you. Lack of money to fulfill your dreams is the fault of the government, oil prices, and rising rents. The reason why no one understands you is people are stupid. And why do you occasionally explode with anger? Your parents’ fault. They didn’t teach…

  • 5 Mistakes to Avoid So You Can Make Habit Building A Breeze

    5 Mistakes to Avoid So You Can Make Habit Building A Breeze

    3. Expecting Immediate Results How is your life? If you’d measure if you do good or bad, how would you start? I’d check if my daily actions are aligned with my long-term goals. But also if my long-term goals are aligned with what I value in life. You see, we’re complicated beasts, not knowing ourselves…

  • Easy Way to Increase The Joy and Reduce The Pain In 5 Minutes Today

    Easy Way to Increase The Joy and Reduce The Pain In 5 Minutes Today

    To change your life, you need to change how you look at it Photo by Bestbe Models Can you spot a gorilla? In The Invisible Gorilla test, people were asked to count basketball passes. Little did they know that the important question was: Did you see the gorilla? According to the study, 50% of people didn’t. It…

  • You Have Everything You Need to Free Yourself From the Job You Hate

    You Have Everything You Need to Free Yourself From the Job You Hate

    You hate your life if you hate your job. Hate steals your mojo. You’d think it’s only bad when you work, but it’s a lie. The attitude you have for your job spills over your life. So, you feel hopeless while meeting with friends because you just left work. The standard advice is to switch…