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Overthinking every decision? Here's how prioritization and experimentation replaced my chronic indecision with real action — and more agency over my life.
Five simple rules I use to reclaim time and energy from noise and obligations, and spend them building the life I actually want.
You are a victim. You're not to blame. Everything happens to you. Lack of money to fulfill your dreams is the fault of the government, oil prices, and rising rents. The reason why no one understands you is people are stupid. And why do you occasionally explode with anger? Your parents' fault. They didn't teach you how to deal with emotions.
I drifted through my twenties avoiding honest self-reflection. The common mistake that cost me years - and the question that fixed it.
Do you remember when you resigned from asking her out because you were scared? You were sweating, thinking about what to say, and fear stopped you. I did that constantly, and asking girls out was my smallest problem.
A five-minute practice that increases joy and reduces daily pain by shifting attention from what is missing to what is already working.
You want a new phone. No, you want a new house. No, wait. Now, you want a new flat screen TV, oh no, now it's a car. Second, later, you want to be a writer. Right after dreaming about traveling the world. And then you wake up.
Everyone wants to change the world, but few accept that changing anything always starts with oneself. People know everything about anything, and they want to fix it, yet they can't fix their shit. I used to be a big proponent of fixing everything besides myself, but luckily life showed me what was happening.
I felt like a gun shell. A bullet was fired a long time ago. Now empty inside. Without potential. There was no meaning in my life. The existential dread kept me up at night. I was afraid of going to sleep. Because of the fact I did nothing of value. And if you can’t sleep, you never fully regenerate. You become that empty shell.
Spiritual growth stalls on the same five mistakes - chasing highs, bypassing work, collecting tools. Here is how to avoid each one.